I took a break from Social Media, one to see if I feel better without it, 2 – to determine if I would be missing anything and 3 – to only realize and confirm that it does absolutely NOTHING for you other than give you a platform to talk, chat and update everyone in your life all in one shot. Including people you do not even like or know.
I can see how Social Media keeps people busy but is it really delivering what they say it can deliver? Or is it in the early stages ? Advertising ? I only see that I get bombarded by ads, and they are just selling products, and creating a nice income stream for the platform it is on.
I did notice that without it I didn’t miss a thing, the same people are posting more of the same stuff, new jobs – new clothes – new places they visited – putting it all out there. So you got a new job or switched firms once again, especially in Real Estate, by gosh its a revolving door the quest for just the right place, it’s not the place it is you.
You are searching for you. So glad you all love what you eat and cook and want to share it with the world and get likes and love from people you do not know, and you want to feel complete, and not alone, but the end game is that you are still alone, holding your phone in the kitchen, on the train or at your desk on company time.
I do it to keep people informed and I love to blog about my experience with the internet. I will begin vlogs, very much needed vlogs about the Real Estate Myths , Truths and deception. I am sure that that will spike some curiosity among the people.
I see that one or 2 weeks later, the world is still rotating, and not much has changed. People were still complaining about the Presidency, still talking about sexual mis conduct, GEEZ that will go on for a century or more, heck sexual mis conduct has been here since humans have been on earth … So I am sure we will see an increasing number of complaints and well this gives people something to talk about for years to come. I say why wait 30 years to speak up ? I understand as a child not wanting to speak but as a grown up, an adult .. c’mon do you really need others to spill their story before you can take care of you ? FEAR ? Most likely FEAR. RELEASE THE FEAR and start LIVING.
To social Media or Not to….. I feel that if you need to be in a circle that’s a great place, I feel if you need to show off – another great opportunity and I believe that if you want to brand your brand – GREAT .. however I do not believe that it will “change” your life, or “change” your income. I do believe that only YOU can do that since YOU are the only CONSTANT in your LIFE well I say YOU better start to LOVE YOURSELF. NO one or NOTHING can give you that, but YOU. So where ever you go, there you are. BALANCE happens to be the key to a happy life. OHHHHH and granted, it is a faster way to communicate but it is so impersonal and in a time where people are looking for an “experience” not sure the internet provides that high, nor does a company .. only people can make that happen when they INTERACT with one another.
So keep talking to people in person, call once in a while and make it an experience they can never forget ! and by golly …. hug yourself you deserve it!